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Subject: When my mom stayed with us
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iilmadme 24.11.21 - 03:54pm
She went through her savings a little bit,left her bankcard at home with my brother to run the house on,pay bills etc and used her savings to contribute around 30 quid a week to household stuff for us.also bought herself a lot of stuff she needed,new clothes etc because she walked out of home with not a lot... firstly,do you think i should try n repay her a bit of what she spent here?

Secondly,when she went back home she coincedentally recieved an inheritance which she always planned on sharing a bit with me n my brother.i cant see her any more because she's back there shielding with my bro but she has sent me her savings card n told me to take out my share.ive taken 300 quid out today to get our dog his tests done at the vets asap.my bf wants to repay her n so do i.should i have 'my' share of this thing or let her give it to my brother ultimately? * +

3mel 24.11.21 - 03:59pm
buy her a gift as thanks, something that'll definitely be of use to her. * +

iilmadme 24.11.21 - 04:14pm
The whole thing is making me feel sick,i never wanted and hardly ever took a penny off her while she was here.but my brother still wondered what she had done with her other account and she let him think that,hid from him the things she had bought etc...im really reluctant to take any more.the inheritance she originally wanted to give me is a few grand.which i wouldnt mind having tbh lol.but im not sure it's worth the toxic crap that now comes with it * +

iilmadme 24.11.21 - 04:17pm
Ive had to take the vet bill though,it's a no brainer.the dog needs a diagnosis.if he tests positive for this rare condition there is some chance of treatment * +

iilmadme 24.11.21 - 04:19pm
Other than that i wouldve just not thought about it for as long as possible...that might still work if i get this 300 back into her account when we get paid * +

3mel 24.11.21 - 04:45pm
if you don't take it it won't be noticed for what it is, plus later on there will be times when you'll wish you had the money.

tell your brother that she used it without an expectation of being believed and leave it there. some people get so wrapped up in their own thought processes that they couldn't recognise the truth if it slapped them in the face.

don't alter your actions to account for someone else's twisted thoughts only for that to count for little with them anyway. * +

mikeymk 24.11.21 - 04:48pm
What would your brother do? * +

kipling 24.11.21 - 05:02pm
Your mum said take it , she's thinking about your predicament with the dog n things ..Parents are like that , just like you being a parent to the dog , she cares about the things she loves just like you do. * +

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